In aiming to notice the variety of values, I notice abandonment arises to influence violence in others. Thus abandonment tests violence and also excludes the influence of some.
In noticing reactionary states of violence, including any irrational need for abandonment (or to abandon), I examine vigilante causes and protection.
In facing unfelt loss, I participate through self-aware abandonment, that is, awareness of tensions over enlivened vs. deadened and an enhanced capacity for satisfaction through both competition and play.