Mirror for Your Thoughts achieving self Relationships achieving self informs meaning source through love, power, and justice .Opportunities that enhance achieving self as meaning source generate longing, initiative, and forgiveness .Reinforcement patterns for achieving self as meaning source generate closeness, limits, and retribution . Reflection on achieving self mental contentdualismparticledeterminationvigilantismproofvehicleviolencedisciplined activitygluttonyhiddendenialdominationwonderprotectionseparatenessrejectionmoralityethicsretributioniterativepurposewrongedpotentialgrieflongingrootwillcreativityvesselplayanticipationflexibilitysorrowcelebrityabandonmentpersistentassumptionsboredomacceptance